The Coaching Inn

S1 Episode 46: Exploring the Essence of Coaching with Nick Bolton

'Coaching is the first fully egalitarian approach to human change we have ever seen' says Nick Bolton. Nick founded Animas Coaching and the International Centre for Coaching Supervision.

Plenty of nuggets in today's conversation with Claire - putting in, meaning making and humility. Nick quotes Yallom who says that 'every contact leaves a trace'. What trace has this left in you?

 

Takeaways

• Coaching is about helping people face their current truth and take personal agency in moving forward.
• The term 'life coaching' can be limiting and misleading, as coaching is a much broader and deeper practice.
• Coaching is an epistemological position that challenges the idea of expertise and emphasizes the exploration of meaning.
• Humility and trust are essential qualities for coaches, as they allow for a collaborative and egalitarian approach to coaching.
• Supervision is crucial for coaches, especially when working with deep and personal issues, and it should be a norm in the coaching profession.
• Belonging is a complex concept, and coaches often navigate the tension between belonging and not belonging.
• Every contact leaves a trace, and meaningful conversations can have a lasting impact on individuals.

Contact Nick through Linked In

 

Keywords

coaching, truth, personal agency, life coaching, epistemological position, humility, trust, supervision, belonging, meaning

 

S1 Episode 45: Belief and Trust - Foundations of Coaching Mastery with J Val Hastings

'Mastery is about expanding your range as a coach'. Today, Claire Pedrick MCC talks to J Val Hastings MCC about the connection between coaching mastery and Harry Potter. Find out what made Val take 8 years of mentor coaching on his journey to MCC and hear his top tips for coaches seeking to become even better.

 

takeaways

• Mastery is the dance you don't learn in a classroom.
• Masterful conversations are about partnership and presence.
• Belief in the process is essential for effective coaching.
• Continuous learning and feedback are crucial for mastery.
• Mastery involves expanding your range as a coach.
• The nuances in coaching conversations can lead to transformation.
• It's important to embrace the discomfort in coaching.
• Growth often comes from taking risks on the skinny branch.
• Mastery is not a destination but an ongoing journey.
• Engaging in parallel pursuits can enhance coaching skills.

 

Keywords

coaching, mastery, coaching conversations, presence, intuition, belief, trust, growth, feedback, learning

 

S1 Episode 44: Mindfulness and Presence with Shaun Lambert

"We've really neglected attention and awareness, which are just beautiful capacities that we have within us."

A great follow up to Claire's conversation with Tünde, Mindfulness Practitioner Shaun Lambert talks about

• attentiveness
• paying attention and
• awareness

offering nuggets that you can apply to every day life and to conversations.  'We can reperceive even when there are no options'.

https://shaunlambert.co.uk

 

We also talked about Detoxing the Ego by Steven Sylvester

 

Takeaways

• Attentiveness and mindfulness are essential in our fast-paced, information-driven world.
• Being present in the moment and paying attention to our bodies, senses, and surroundings can lead to healing and well-being.
• Mindfulness of God is a unique aspect of mindfulness from a faith perspective.
• Mindfulness can be beneficial for young people struggling with mental health issues, providing them with tools to access their creativity and well-being.
• Authentic relationships and compassionate conversations are crucial in supporting young people and helping them find purpose and meaning.
• Mindfulness has the power to transform our perspectives, reduce anxiety, and open us up to new possibilities.
• Mindfulness and creativity are closely connected, and accessing our creativity can bring joy and fulfillment to our lives.

Keywords

attentiveness, mindfulness, mental health, faith, young people, creativity

S1 Episode 43: Being Human in Coaching with Tünde Erdös

"Coaching presence is about the non-verbal relationship between coach and client."

 

In today's episode, Claire is in conversation with human being, coach and academic Tünde Erdös author of Coaching Presence: Understanding the Power of the Non-Verbal Relationship. 'We don't know what presence is. We are on the cusp of understanding... think 'what else could I notice but I'm not'

linkedin.com/in/tündeerdös

We also mentioned A Guide to Third Generation Coaching: Narrative-Collaborative Theory and Practice Hardcover by Reinhard Stelter

Takeaways

• Coaching presence is about the non-verbal relationship between coach and client.
• Embracing our humanity as coaches and being open to learning from clients is essential.
• Third-generation coaching emphasizes collaborative and relational meaning-making.
• Paying attention to non-verbal cues and the impact of the body is crucial in coaching.
• Coaches should be curious and continuously reflect on their practice and identity.

Keywords

coaching presence, non-verbal relationship, journey, humbling moment, academic, collaborative, relational meaning-making, humanity, third-generation coaching, non-verbal cues, body

 

S1 Episode 42: How to Choose Your Coaching CPD (CCE) with Ruth Bennett

Claire Pedrick MCC and Ruth Bennett PCC ponder some useful things to think about when you're choosing your coaching CPD (Continuing Coach Education) so that it serves you, the people you're coaching and your organisation. They explore the balance between personal and professional growth, the importance of finding the right learning paths, and the courage required to engage in challenging topics. They explore the significance of community support in learning, the need for depth over breadth in CPD, and the value of reflection in the coaching journey. Listeners are encouraged to consider their own CPD choices and the criteria that guide them.

 

Keywords

CPD, professional development, personal growth, coaching, learning, continuous education, coaching community, depth vs breadth, reflective practice, coaching journey

 

S1 Episode 41: Power Dynamics in Coaching Relationships with Jeff Matthews

At The Coaching Inn today, Claire talks with Jeff Matthews from The Madison Group about what actually is coaching anyway. We dig a bit deeper into power and partnership, and explore interest and disinterest and make a deepening commitment to explore our own privilege.

Contact jeff@the-madison-group.co.uk 

Books we mention:

Me and White Supremacy by Layla Saad

Jews Don't Count by David Baddiel

Why I'm No Longer Talking to White People About Race by Renni Eddo-Lodge

 

Keywords

coaching, power dynamics, coaching terminology, interest and disinterest, coaching supervision, personal development, coaching journey, professional coaching, coaching relationships, coaching craft

 

 

S1 Episode 40: The Art of Enough with Becky Hall

There's music in today's podcast when Claire talks with Becky Hall - coach and author of The Art of Enough. 

They explore the journey of writing the book, the concept of 'enough' in personal and professional contexts, and the importance of setting boundaries, especially for freelancers. The discussion also touches on the connection between individual well-being and global challenges, the significance of legacy, and the cyclical nature of life. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to embrace the mindset of enough and engage in meaningful conversations about it.

 

This will be the read for our next book group - more details coming soon.

Contact Becky BECKYHALL@PRESENCE.UK.NET

We also talked about

The Good Ancestor by Roman Krznaric

Ambiguous Loss by Pauline Boss

 

Keywords

coaching, personal development, boundaries, enough mindset, freelance life, climate change, connection, legacy, self-care, mental health

 

S1 Episode 39: Navigating Loss - The Role of Coaching with Sue Morrison and Naomi Craft

'How's your grief journey?' is such a different question from 'How are you?' or indeed someone crossing the road when they don't know what to say to someone. In today's conversation, Claire talks with two medical doctors and coaches, Sue Morrison and Naomi Craft about coaching, death, bereavement and loss of all kinds. They discuss the importance of addressing death and dying openly, the role of coaching in facilitating meaningful conversations, and the need for healthcare professionals to be better equipped to support individuals facing these challenges. The discussion also highlights the normalisation of grief and the significance of training for coaches and caregivers to provide effective support.

Contact Sue and Naomi https://www.coachdoc.co.uk/

 

 

Keywords

coaching, loss, bereavement, end of life, grief, healthcare, personal development, communication, support, training

 

S1 Episode 38: Embracing Technology in Coaching with Sam Isaacson

Claire talks to Sam Isaacson about his new book How to Thrive as a Coach in a Digital World and  the intersection of coaching and technology. Sam shares his unique journey from a background in technology auditing to becoming a coach and author. The discussion explores the importance of understanding technology's role in coaching, the innovative tools available, and the ethical dilemmas that arise. They delve into the potential of virtual reality and soundscapes in enhancing coaching experiences, emphasising the need for co-creation and collaboration between coaches and thinkers. The conversation concludes with reflections on the future of coaching and the importance of maintaining confidentiality in a digital age.

 

Sam is on Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/samisaacson

 

Soundscape can be found here https://mynoise.net/

The VR show on BBC iPlayer is called Your Home Made Perfect

 

Keywords

coaching, technology, digital world, virtual reality, soundscapes, binaural beats, coaching ethics, co-creation, coaching tools, future of coaching

 

S1 Episode 37: The Art of Team Coaching with Georgina Woudstra

In this episode of The Coaching Inn, Claire Pedrick engages in a deep conversation with Georgina Woodstra about her new book, 'Mastering the Art of Team Coaching.' They explore the nuances of team coaching, its distinction from facilitation and consulting, and the importance of collaboration in effective teams. They talk about the need for a cultural shift in organisations towards collective success and discuss the challenges and opportunities presented by virtual team coaching. The conversation also touches on the interior conditions required for effective coaching, including the role of courage and the continuous learning journey of coaches.

Buy the book and access the bonus chapter on team coaching virtually https://masteringtheartofteamcoaching.com/

Contact Georgina through https://teamcoachingstudio.com/

 

 

Keywords

team coaching, facilitation, consulting, collaboration, organisational culture, virtual coaching, coaching philosophy, courage, coaching skills, coaching community