The Coaching Inn

S1 Episode 24: Couple to Couple Coaching with Keith and Juliet Johnson

... 'if your relationship could speak, what would it say?'

Ruth Bennett PCC in conversation with Juliet and Keith Johnson from Couple to Couple Coaching  about their unique approach to coaching couples. They share their journey into couples coaching, the dynamics of working together as a couple, and the importance of creating a safe space for people to communicate. They discuss the distinction between coaching and therapy, the challenges of navigating individual needs within a couple, and offer advice for aspiring couple coaches. 

 

Keywords

couples coaching, relationship dynamics, coaching techniques, couple relationships, communication skills, coaching vs therapy, relationship advice, couple coaching tips, emotional connection, partnership

 

S1 Episode 23: Simplifying Coaching - A Journey of Discovery with Claire Pedrick MCC

3D Coaching's Su Blanch in conversation with Claire Pedrick MCC about her journey to writing her book 'Simplifying Coaching'. She reflects on the evolution of her ideas, the significance of the book's title, and the importance of embracing imperfection in coaching.

Claire emphasises that coaching should focus on the impact it has on individuals rather than the coach's expertise. The conversation also explores the target audience for the book and the necessity of simple, human-centered conversations in coaching. Claire concludes with thoughts on creating a safe space for dialogue and the book's availability.

 

You can buy the book an Amazon worldwide. Signed copies are available from the 3D Coaching shop www.3dcoaching.com/shop 

 

Contact us by emailing info@3dcoaching.com

 

Keywords

coaching, conversation, simplicity, learning, transformation, book, Claire Pedrick, coaching principles, coaching impact, coaching audience

 

S1 Episode 22: Coaching in Sub-Saharan Africa with Sunny Stout-Rostron

Claire Pedrick MCC in conversation with Dr Sunny Stout-Rostron about her coaching journey and the evolution of coaching in South Africa and across Africa. They discuss the importance of cultural competence, the impact of COVID-19 on coaching practices, and the significance of transformation in coaching. Sunny shares insights on the collective nature of African societies and the future of coaching in the continent, emphasizing the need for ongoing development and connection among coaches.

 

This podcast is part of a series in advance of the 2021 African Executive Coaching Convention

 

Keywords

coaching, Africa, Sunny Stout-Rostron, transformation, cultural competence, executive coaching, mentoring, COVID-19, diversity, leadership

 

S1 Episode 21: The Rise of Systemic Coaching in Africa with Paul Musoke

Claire Pedrick MCC talking to Paul Musoke about the African Executive Coaching Convention in 2021 and about the evolution and current state of executive coaching in Africa.

Paul is a coach from Uganda. They discuss the establishment of the Africa Executive Coaching Council, the importance of systemic team coaching, and the unique cultural aspects influencing coaching practices on the continent. Paul shares insights on power dynamics in coaching relationships, the differences between coaching executives and middle managers, and emerging trends such as Ubuntu coaching and digital platforms connecting coaches with clients. The conversation culminates in an overview of the upcoming inaugural Africa Executive Coaching Convention, highlighting its significance for the coaching community in Africa.

Keywords

coaching, Africa, executive coaching, systemic coaching, Ubuntu coaching, coaching culture, coaching platforms, power dynamics, coaching convention

 

S1 Episode 20: The Music of Team Coaching with Alan Gyle

Claire Pedrick and Alan Gyle discuss the intricacies of team coaching, particularly in a virtual environment. They explore the challenges faced by coaches when working with teams online, emphasizing the importance of the 'space between' individuals and the need for trust and connection. The conversation delves into the art of noticing, managing anxiety within teams, and the significance of in-person interactions for effective coaching. They also touch on the necessity of curiosity and the ongoing learning process for coaches, concluding with a call to embrace the rewarding yet challenging nature of team coaching.

 

The poem Alan references is

• A Lesson in Music by Alistair Reid
• Listen here

Keywords

team coaching, virtual coaching, coaching challenges, trust in coaching, organizational dynamics, coaching skills, anxiety management, in-person interaction, mixed mode working, coaching techniques, music of coaching

 

S1 Episode 19: The Power of STOKeRS in Coaching Conversations with Claire Pedrick MCC

Su Blanch ACC talks to 3D's founding partner Claire Pedrick MCC about the origin of STOKeRS questions, designed to facilitate transformational conversations in coaching. Claire explains the origin, its significance in creating a partnership between coach and thinker, and how it can be applied in various contexts beyond coaching. The conversation emphasises the importance of asking the right questions in the right order to foster a future-focused and optimistic dialogue, ultimately leading to more effective coaching outcomes.

takeaways

• Transformational conversations lead to deeper insights and understanding.
• The term 'stoker' symbolizes the supportive role in a coaching relationship.
• Effective coaching requires clarity on the conversation's purpose before diving in.
• The order of questions in STOKeRS is crucial for effective dialogue.
• STOKeRS can be applied in various contexts, not just coaching.
• Future-focused questions encourage optimism and forward movement.
• Listening to people is essential for effective coaching.
• The STOKeRS framework helps create a safe space for exploration.
• Coaching is about partnership and co-creation of the conversation.

 

Find the questions in our blog.  And talk to us if you'd like to learn to coach like we do.

 

 

Keywords

coaching, Stokers, transformational conversations, coaching framework, coaching questions, partnership, performance management, coaching development, 3D Coaching, Claire Pedrick

 

S1 Episode 18: Coaching Pioneers in the Church with Ed Olsworth Peter

In this conversation, Claire Pedrick speaks with Ed Olsworth-Peter from the Church of England about the role of coaching for pioneers in the church. They explore how people are adapting to uncertainty, the importance of co-creation in community, and the shift in conversations that have emerged during lockdown. They discuss the need to redefine success and fruitfulness, emphasizing the significance of being over doing. The conversation highlights the importance of listening, noticing, and fostering deeper connections in leadership and community engagement.

• People were asking more questions during COVID-19.
• Noticing is more important than diagnosing.
• Different people respond to uncertainty in various ways.
• Co-creation is essential in community building.
• Curating existing resources can be more impactful than initiating new ones.
• Community spirit has flourished during lockdown.
• It's okay to not be okay; mental health matters.
• Success should be redefined beyond traditional metrics.
• Being is as important as doing in leadership.
• Pioneers can offer valuable insights for navigating uncertainty.

 

Keywords

coaching, COVID-19, uncertainty, adaptation, community, co-creation, leadership, conversations, success, fruitfulness

 

S1 Episode 17: Coaching and Resilience with Chris Paterson

"Resilience is bounce back ability plus."

 

In this episode of The Coaching Inn podcast, Claire Pedrick speaks with Chris Paterson about resilience, exploring his personal journey from a corporate accountant to an executive coach. They discuss the importance of recognizing the need for resilience, especially during challenging times like the pandemic, and share strategies for building resilience through self-awareness, energy management, and preparation. The conversation emphasizes that resilience is not just for a select few but is an ordinary capability that everyone possesses, and it can be cultivated through personal insights and practices.

Keywords

resilience, personal growth, coaching, mental health, energy management, pandemic, self-care, leadership, emotional intelligence, well-being

 

S1 Episode 16: Coaching and Masking - with Lesley Cave

Facemasks, screens, headgear... what kind of masks come between us and those with whom we work?

Claire Pedrick MCC talks to Lesley Cave PCC from Rooktree Coaching. This episode was recorded during the pandemic. They explore how the use of face masks and other barriers, such as screens and phone calls, can impact the coaching process. They challenge the limiting beliefs and myths around coaching in different mediums and emphasize the importance of being fully present and adaptable as a coach. They also discuss the power dynamics and labels in coaching, highlighting the need for vulnerability and authenticity. Overall, they encourage coaches to embrace the uncertainty and be open to new ways of working.

Takeaways

• Coaching behind the mask involves navigating the challenges and opportunities presented by face masks, screens, and phone calls.
• Being fully present and adaptable as a coach is crucial in overcoming the barriers created by masks and other mediums.
• Power dynamics and labels in coaching can hinder the coaching process, and coaches should strive for vulnerability and authenticity.
• Embracing uncertainty and being open to new ways of working can lead to more effective coaching.

Keywords

coaching, masks, barriers, face masks, screens, phone calls, presence, adaptability, power dynamics, labels, vulnerability, authenticity, uncertainty

 

 

 

 

S1 Episode 15: The Evolution of 3D Coaching with Sue Appleton

Su Blanch ACC talks to 3D Coaching's Sue Appleton about what she has learned from being the backbone of 3D's admin. They discuss the history of 3D Coaching, from its humble beginnings in a home office to its growth and expansion into a professional workspace. Sue Appleton shares her personal journey, the challenges faced during periods of rapid growth, and the importance of having a balance between big thinkers and detail-oriented individuals in a business. The conversation concludes with reflections on lessons learned and advice for aspiring entrepreneurs.

From Sue: "What I would say to  a Sue starting out: don't hold it all in your head - write stuff down to make future proofing/handover easier"

Keywords

3D Coaching, business growth, coaching history, entrepreneurship, office transition, personal development, small business, team dynamics, professional coaching, lessons learned